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Read a Q & A with Kate Jacobs (Continued...)

Which character do you identify with most strongly? How much of yourself did you put into these characters?

Well, I really love all the characters - I forgive them all their flaws and mistakes. I identify with many of the struggles the characters have, to some degree, but that is something many women could say. Issues about career, about getting married, about mapping out our lives (and learning how quickly things can go off-road). I'm there in the book, and then again I'm not there. Sometimes I put personal things in quite consciously - I did that more with Comfort Food, in which the best friend has the same last name as my best friend, for example. Other times, little bits of me just seep into the characters, and it could be a favorite food they have or a pet peeve. But I tend not to write one fully developed character who is a stand-in for me - that would be too revealing!

To what extent are the characters based on your own circle of family and friends?

In The Friday Night Knitting Club, I could point to Georgia's Gran and the similarities with my own grandmother, who was a great knitter, great baker, and great lady. And so opinionated! Or I could share that when I was a little kid, I loved to bake - as Dakota does - and then when I was a teenager I was so like Darwin, who is suspicious of everything domestic. In Knit Two, the characters have all continued to grow and change, and Gran is mostly off-page in Scotland. So they're all moving beyond these similarities and truly becoming themselves.

Your characters are of different races, religions, and economic backgrounds, but their friendship mostly transcends those factors. That said, Dakota, Georgia's daughter, has to confront some issues related to her biracial background. So what does all this say about the way these kinds of differences affect friendships between women in the real world?

My personal world is made up of friends and family who are different from me - and so I think it's important that the group in the novel be multiracial, multigenerational, and have different religions and sizes of bank accounts. That's real. Because at our core, regardless of differences, I think we all share similar desires for community and connection. We want to love and be loved. And, like the women in Knit Two, most of our conversations revolve around what we're dealing with in any given moment, whether it's something about our work or our family. In other words, our struggles and similarities form the basis for our friendships. That said, differences do remain. It's important to be honest about them, not to pretend they don't exist. It is very difficult to ever fully comprehend another person's struggles when we cannot personally relate, when we haven't walked in their shoes. That's why compassion is such a crucial element in a relationship. And why I try to bring compassion to writing honestly in my novels.

Knit Two is primarily a story of friendships between women, like The Friday Night Knitting Club, but you also include some significant male characters, and there's one particularly close but platonic male-female friendship. Women's friendships are certainly special, but can men join the circle, too, maybe as associate members?

Of course men can join! And it's not just characters. Over the past year, I've heard from a handful of men who've read the book, and that's been a delight. Personally, my husband is my best friend, and many women I know have important men in their lives. It seemed only appropriate that men have a place in the novel, and developing the platonic friendship was a way to show a male character in more than just the role of the love interest.

What is it about knitting that makes it so popular right now, both traditional and hip at the same time?

Knitting is a lot of things all wrapped up in a ball of yarn. It's memory of good old days and sweet grandmothers. It can be an assertion of personality, of irony, of creativity. It can be a luxurious indulgence using the fanciest materials, and it can be a budget-minded holiday scarf using yarn on sale. You can knit all alone, or you can find a group and knit with them. Knitting has the flexibility to meet our needs for a creative and emotional outlet, and it has a very soothing rhythm. It nurtures, and I think that's a very good thing in times of uncertainty.

How's your own knitting going? When do you find time for it?

I have so many half-finished projects it is becoming ridiculous! Our guest room has turned into a stash room, which is good for me but crowded for guests. I've moved into my afghan phase - well, it's more about throws I can make in one piece - and that's all I want to knit lately. The only hiccup - and it's a good problem to have - is that I'm so busy writing, talking to book clubs, going on tour, and so on that I only have time for a few rows here or there. However, knitting on large needles has really helped stretch out my wrists, which can become stressed after being perched on the keyboard all day. So now I have an excuse to sneak in a little knitting!

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