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At one point in my life, I wrote obits by day and did stand-up comedy at night.
These things may seem to have nothing in common at first glance. But they taught me a lot about balance. I learned to write passages that would hopefully evoke laughter or sympathy. I also learned how to quickly switch gears emotionally. I thought about that last night when I did my first stop of my paperback book tour.
My father-in-law, Floyd, always wanted me to do an event in Spokane, Wash., the town where he lived. He lobbied Auntie's, the local bookstore, who in turn lobbied Penguin. We knew back in March that I'd be doing an event here. He was just as proud of me as my own dad would have been had he not passed away nearly 28 years ago.
So, as I stood up to start speaking, and tried to warm up by telling a few jokes, I thought of that time when I wrote obits and did stand-up comedy. Missing from the crowd was my father-in-law, the one who most wanted me to speak here. He died suddenly of a stroke back in April. I mentioned this to the crowd, and my eyes seized with tears. I literally felt my throat catch. I couldn't talk about him. No one wants to see an author cry, even if the word is in the title of her book.















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