Submitted by Penguin Blog (USA) Visitor (not verified) on Mon, 07/02/2007 - 9:49am.
I would say your nine steps are a secret, not so much because psychology is hidden as because our so-called sexual revolution has short-changed the courtship that is necessary for love to blossom. You have outlined in a coherent fashion the old courtship that used to occur. We have forgotten or thrown that out in an attempt to equalize the power between the sexes. But as you so succinctly point out, biology and psychology still drive us and our attempts to ignore it have resulted in mass confusion and misery.
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Why the secret is a secret
I would say your nine steps are a secret, not so much because psychology is hidden as because our so-called sexual revolution has short-changed the courtship that is necessary for love to blossom. You have outlined in a coherent fashion the old courtship that used to occur. We have forgotten or thrown that out in an attempt to equalize the power between the sexes. But as you so succinctly point out, biology and psychology still drive us and our attempts to ignore it have resulted in mass confusion and misery.