Does this only apply to men, or for both men and women? I ask because I have all these qualities (I'm a woman) and it is actually attributed to my problem in being bi-polar and codependency... And not once in any of my long term relationships have I ever cheated... It makes sense, but I was just wondering how full proof your analysis is as though I met every single one of the criteria I've never cheated. I think all your criteria actually meet the description of pretty much all bipolar people (bad impulse control, controlling, needy and sensitivity) but I'm pretty sure they also each have different personalities as well. I think it depends on how you're raised... no matter how low your impulse control.