I have one sister, but we're not close. If we talk on the phone, it's much better than when we get together. But my boys are like yours, Candy - the eldest says he's trying to toughen the younger one up. I have my doubts. But when someone else picks on his little brother the way he does, he goes into uber-protective mode. It's cute to watch and then remind him of it later when he does exactly the same thing as the intruder has done. Talk about stammering ...busted!